<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><title>Kerry Mahs on Gromet's Plaza Archive</title><link>/authors/kerry-mahs/</link><description>Recent content in Kerry Mahs on Gromet's Plaza Archive</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="/authors/kerry-mahs/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>Kerry’s Pride</title><link>/stories/2011/08/21/kerrys-pride/</link><pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2011 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>/stories/2011/08/21/kerrys-pride/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;There is a gay bar in town`, which proudly illuminates its &amp;ldquo;PRIDE&amp;rdquo; signs. It is billed as the town’s only “alternative restaurant and bar.” Here, everyone &amp;ndash; Gays and lesbians, transgender, and heterosexual cross dressers, or transvestites (or TVs, AKA trannies or T-gurls) &amp;ndash; is safe &lt;strong&gt;and&lt;/strong&gt; welcome. There are no judgments about who or what you are. In fact, for many who continue to struggle with where they fit, or who they are, or why they are like they are, the bar is a sanctuary (and the food is good, too). It has an atmosphere of acceptance and understanding. And that is important, because it generally does more to help men and women like us figure out who we are, or who we are not, and this helps us immeasurably as we attempt to deal with our sexual identity. The bar does more than all the psychologists, psychiatrists and social workers combined whom we’ve all visited, and to whom we’ve all poured out our innermost feelings – not to mention our money.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>