<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"><channel><title>Bondagequeensara on Gromet's Plaza Archive</title><link>/authors/bondagequeensara/</link><description>Recent content in Bondagequeensara on Gromet's Plaza Archive</description><generator>Hugo</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Sat, 16 Feb 2013 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="/authors/bondagequeensara/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>The First Time</title><link>/stories/2013/02/16/the-first-time/</link><pubDate>Sat, 16 Feb 2013 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>/stories/2013/02/16/the-first-time/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;So when was my first time? 
That all depends on whether you mean by myself or with someone else. I have already documented my experiments with stockings as a teenage girl. This developed into self-bondage using belts and ropes. The internet helped me develop these skills as I got older and more information and web sites came online. But when was the first time I revealed my addiction to a someone else and let them tie me up. That is the question I am going to answer. 
I was 16. I had had a couple of boyfriends and had been sexually active for about a year. I was careful, even though I started a little early, and my partners were all boyfriends. I think I only had one ‘one night stand’ at this point and that was a disaster I prefer not to remember. I had only really dated boys, but I was aware I was not opposed to girls as such, but at that time, boys tended to do it for me. That was about to change. 
I was moving from secondary school to Sixth Form College. I had decided to change schools as the girl’s school I was at did not have the subjects available at A-Level that I wanted: Art, Maths, English literature and Media Studies.  So I settled on a dedicated sixth form college in the next town down the road. A few of my friends went with me but we mostly studied different things so I guess I felt a little lonely for the first few weeks.&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>